This is when the power games begin. âYou OK?â he asks. âIâm waiting on you, this is your job,â she replies tersely. âYou seem very irritated,â he responds.
First of all, that was the second time he asked her if she was okay. We encourage police officer to take a more human approach to policing, so officers will ask that question, sometimes repeatedly. The first time he asked, she blew him off. And then she tried to pretend that she had given hm her license, when she hadnât.
When he asked her how long she was going to be in town, she could have said that she was coming back to work at A&M. That would have given them both an opening to turn the conversation around. Instead, she told him she was only there for a couple days.
And exactly what is so âpower gamesâ about his interaction, before she pops off and tries to make it all his fault? The fact was she did not signal, no matter what the reason was. She could have said at the start, âI changed lanes to get out of your way, I thought maybe you were on your way to a call, but youâre right, I didnât signal.â
Instead she cops a major attitude and accuses him of writing her a ticket for bullshit reasons (in fact he was only going to give her a warning, just like the previous person he stopped). And when he asks her to put out her cigarette, which even as a smoker I recognize as a valid request, even from a non-cop, she insists she doesnât have to. Which even the dumbest person in the world knows you should do if a police officer asks you to. Cigarettes can easily be used against a police officer.
Even the media seems to be viewing the video through a distorted lens. Iâve watched the whole thing, and the officerâs accounting, while slightly skewed in his favor (news flash - everybody does that, automatically and without thinking about it), is consistent with what I am seeing and hearing.
But he was convicted without a trial by Monday morning. It sucks, but this is one personable police officer who will probably be hanging up his badge soon.